on the Automattic yacht.
That’s my job title. Because at Automattic we pick our own job titles. I think that’s a really cool policy. Previously I have been a ninja and an alligator wrestler; and for the next few weeks and the previous couple, I am also a community guardian.
I haven’t really blogged about work much. I really don’t want to put that much personal information out there. Also, it has taken a long time for me to adjust to being full-time employed. If you’ve been following along on my adventures from the beginning of my journey, you know full well that I am very comfortable with being cyclically unemployed. I relished the freedom and the psychology of my employment having an “end date” did wonders for my morale. The problem was, that employment did require a physical presence for long stretches of time, sometimes in the worst ducking conditions known to man on earth. Yeah, the adventure aspect of that was nifty and so far as the Antarctic portion of that employment cycle, I’d be keen to do it again at some point. Maybe when I get old I can go be a shuttle driver or something, provided the whole damn thing hasn’t been flooded by sea level rise by then.
Anyhow, in addition to the requirement of a physical presence, I also found myself more and more at odds with my own beliefs and values. I know that me stepping away from the machine isn’t going to bring the machine to a grinding halt. There are willing people to do that type of work. Doesn’t mean I have to be a part of it.
In 2014, at the tender age of 45, I did a career 180. My first intention was to be a freelance software developer with a focus on WordPress plugins. Turns out I’m a horrible entrepreneur. I tried a few different approaches and failed miserably in all of them.
I was working on a client project one day. That project involved WooCommerce so there I was browsing the documentation when at the bottom there was some sort of “hey, want to work with us” type advertisement. I applied. Mark and Magnus must have taken pity on an old man or been very desperate or a combination of both and here we are today.
Something pretty significant happened along the way though. WooCommerce was acquired by Automattic. When I first got that news, I was floored. I looked up at that company and aspired to one day work there. In no way did I consider myself worthy at that particular point in time. But, fake ’til you make it I guess ¯_(ツ)_/¯.
This hasn’t been an easy year for me at work and otherwise. There were a lot of changes and I lost a lot of the flexibility that had drawn me to that type of work environment to begin with. I struggled. I really loathed the idea of trying to find another job this good and I have never lost site of how horrible I am at trying to be my own boss. I had to find other ways to cope. And I have. I have also found myself truly respected and adequately supported in my endeavors.
Which brings me back to my job title. There is no yacht but if there ever is, I have staked my claim to the engine room and adventures on the high seas. And the champagne.
I just wanted a written record of my current state of being. I have this notion that years from now, I’ll be looking back on these days and wondering if I’m dreaming or remembering.
Myself, I’m really just killing time waiting until summer before I head south. It’s cold enough here. Nighttime lows get to around 6 or 7 Celsius.
I know, those of you who live in even modestly insulated houses don’t think that sounds cold at all. It is.
I did get up to some adventures in Brazil. The cops there are for real. So are the beaches. So are the protests. They know how to throw a strike and shut a country down. I lived at a gas station for a week. Also, my laptop was out of service so I couldn’t even work. Strikes are powerful.
Donald Trump, when first confronted with questions of a meeting in Trump Tower with some powerful Russians, claimed there were no contacts. He started shouting “no collusion!” at every opportunity. Then the story shifted to the meeting being about adoptions. Then the story shifted to getting opposition research, now the story has reached what is surely the apex of absurdity with an outright admission that he conspired with an enemy to win the election.
Yep, future me, you’re not dreaming it.
In February of 2015 Will sat on a hotel balcony in Puerto Escondido, Mexico and wrote a blog post. It was intended to kind of give ourselves a kick in the ass; we were teetering on the cusp of applying for residency in Mexico or doing something dramatically different.
Of course, we went for dramatic. Or at least I think we did. I do have a fondness for flair.
And you all know what happened next. We bought Moby, we bought way too much shit we thought we’d need and didn’t, and hit the road; starry eyed and brimming with confidence, the kind of combination that always means you’re just around the corner from a massive disappointment.
We’ve had several of those disappointments in the nearly two years since we left the United States and set our sights on Ushuaia, Argentina. We were robbed of nearly everything of value in Barranquilla, Colombia; the ubiquitous mañana kept us delayed in uninspiring places for weeks at a time; places we loved bore no resemblance to the way they had fit into our current story; we had to sacrifice a good deal of sightseeing as we were always chasing wifi in order to work.
Disappointment is inevitable when you travel, no matter how you do it. You need a damn selfie stick to get a shitty photo of the Mona Lisa because of the crowds. Your flight is delayed so you miss your connection and the airline graciously gives you a coupon for McDonald’s. A sudden storm means you’re trudging around Chichen Itza with no umbrella and wet shoes. If a trip goes off without at least one hiccup then you’ve got some wizardry on your side.
But it’s every traveler’s nightmare that a trip will be canceled or cut short due to circumstances beyond their control. Circumstances that were never, ever expected.
When It Just Can’t Be Helped
We have met so many different people from so many different places on this journey. Older couples who have a pension and a retirement to piss away however they please. Young people who have saved money and have a small window of time before they have to go back to work. Families who have decided that driving their kids around South America is better than any school. Seriously, you’d be surprised at the many different kinds of people who undertake this trip.
We have a lot of people tell us things like, “I really wish I could do what you do but we have kids.” I think of all the campgrounds we’ve visited that are teeming with kids, finding bath toys in communal showers, and watching superhero moms simultaneously keep one kid from drowning while effortlessly preparing scrambled eggs for five on a propane stove with another wailing kid attached to her leg.
It’s not your kids you need to worry about if you want to take a trip like this; they’ll be fine. In fact, they’ll be more than fine. They’ll be amazing little shits who will grow up to speak four languages and be the problem solvers of the world.
It’s your aging parents that you need to worry about.
My mom’s health has been declining for some time but it’s been gradual and I’ve never really had cause to worry. My daughter was living with her to help her out and everything was fine. I called her about once a week to chat and she always kept up with us on Facebook. I think she took a lot of joy in following along on our journey.
About two months ago I got a message from my daughter. She had recently taken the move to working full time and was out of the house for the majority of the day. She was worried that my mom needed more attention than she could give. She’s also a young woman with a life of her own. Her residence there was never supposed to be permanent; we just never discussed the time when she’d need or want to move out on her own.
The End of the Line
What do you do when you’re somewhere in the middle of a trip of indeterminable length with your partner and one of you has to stop? How do you let go of the goal you plotted out together? This isn’t like a few months backpacking around Asia; one of you can leave and say, “I’ll see you in a month or so!” We have at least a year or more before we can feel comfortable saying that we’re done.
But the truth is that we are not done. I am done.
I leave for the states in 12 days. Will does not. A mutual decision was made; Will is going to finish the trip on his own. Our relationship is as good as it ever was, probably better, and I don’t anticipate that changing.
But I have to go.
I am sad. I am sad that I’ll miss Buenos Aires, one of the cities I was most looking forward to. I’m sad that I won’t go to Easter Island, something we had very seriously considered as part of this journey. I’m sad that I won’t revel in wine country or try my hand at polo in Argentina. I’m sad that I won’t be able to say, “I did it. I drove a damn truck to the southernmost tip of the Americas.”
But most of all I’m sad to be leaving my best friend behind.
The cynic in me tends to turn my nose up at silver linings but I do think there is one here. I’m excited to spend time with my mom. We have not lived close enough to each other for regular visits in years. I like her; she’s a really cool person who is fun to be around. While I don’t really love being in the states it’s been a long time since I’ve spent more than a few weeks there and it could be a lot worse than northern Utah.
But most of all I guess I feel a sense of privilege. We’re all going to get old one day; you, me, and everyone we know. If all of us had a person who said, “I’ll help” when the need arises can you imagine how great would feel? I can help my mom stay in her home. I can help my mom in her garden this summer. I can drive my mom up to Bear Lake for raspberry milkshakes. I can simply be there so she’s not alone.
That’s a privilege.
I’ve learned so much on this trip that I somehow wonder how I survived before. Pieces of my DNA have been fundamentally altered; that’s a given when you throw yourself into a sink or swim situation the size of two continents. I’ve become more brave, I’ve become more compassionate, I’ve become more humble, I’ve become more intelligent, I’ve become more of the type of person I’ve always wanted to be.
That’s a privilege too.
So that’s it. That’s all. That’s how it ends. I leave Rio for Utah and Will leaves Rio for the next place down the line. Where that might be is up to him now I suppose. And just like the moment we began planning this trip, this part too is indeterminable. What happens next lives somewhere in the great wide open.
But that’s how it always is, isn’t it?
As we work our way toward two years of camper life one of the things that I notice most is what we eat. Or, should I say, what we don’t eat. Our diets are mainly regulated by our proximity to places that sell food, how much of that food we can fit into our tiny fridge, and if the weather allows our fruits and vegetables to spoil in one day or four. In many ways it’s like living in a dorm. Ramen, peanut butter, pasta, and rice are on the menu almost every day of the week
This is not to say that inventive camper cooking can’t be done. Our friends over at The Next Big Adventure are prime examples of gourmet overlanders and I wish we were tagging along with them. I’d simply park myself close enough to their camper so they’d have no choice but to invite me for dinner every night. However, most nights we’re alone in various campgrounds and the aforementioned staples grace our plastic plates.
But, every once in a while we drag out clothing that passes as smart casual, make sure our hands are clean, take ourselves out of the hoi polloi realm, and make a reservation somewhere that offers tablecloths and matching cutlery.
Oh, and we have to remember to strut in like we belong there. We may be hobos but the maître ‘d doesn’t know that, especially when Will’s shirt has a collar and my nail polish isn’t chipped.
Belmond Hotel das Cataratas
When we arrived in Brazil I was tasked with finding a restaurant where we could drop an obscene amount of money on food and take in my first look at Iguaçu Falls. Our choices were limited as most of the restaurant action takes place just across the border in Argentina. It didn’t take me long to decide on Belmond Hotel das Cataratas. Fancy, formal, and right beside the falls I knew that sparkling wine would be served in something other than a coffee cup and I’d likely have a real linen napkin for my lap.
However, getting there is another story.
Since the hotel is located inside the national park entrance is generally limited to hotel guests only. It took several emails and phone calls to ensure that my name was on some fancy list and that we’d have access to the private gate. That didn’t go quite as planned; in the end we had to ride the tourist bus like commoners but hey, since it was the last bus of the day we did have the whole thing to ourselves.
People in South America eat late. If you find a restaurant open at 7pm you’re lucky. The restaurant at the Belmond Hotel das Cataratas was no different. We found ourselves in the bar area, seated outside on a lovely patio, the falls roaring in the background. As a sipped from my glass (a real glass!) of a surprisingly good and very dry Brazilian Brut our server informed us that the kitchen didn’t open until 7:30pm. We had nearly two hours to kill. So, we did what anyone would normally do in that situation.
More sparkling wine for me, more beer for Will.
When it finally came time to place our order I was torn. I’d had all this time to peruse the menu and I still didn’t know what I wanted. Filet? I always have that. Duck? Oh man, I love duck but I wasn’t sure that’s what I wanted. In the end I decided on something wild, literally.
Wild boar with a tamarind glaze and a manioc puree.
It’s been a while since I’ve eaten any kind of game (that I know of) so I was really excited. When my dish arrived I was stunned. A perfect slab of boar belly was placed in the center of a beautiful gray plate, the edges dotted with mustard seed, glistening with tamarind, and nestled in a swath of manioc. This was no camper food.
I picked up my knife and fork only to realize that the knife was useless. This gorgeous slab of meat fell apart at the slightest touch. My first bite was almost a shock; there was the immediate sweet and sour of the tamarind, the smooth taste of pork fat, and that strong mineral flavor that comes from an animal that eats whatever the hell it wants until it dies.
I handed a piece to Will. “Yep. You can taste the adrenaline.”
That piece of boar now ranks as one of my top five meals ever and I’ve eaten some damn good food in my life. We also shared a bottle of Argentinian syrah that I chose from the wine list. Our server praised my choice, indicating that this wine is the sommelier’s pick for the boar. It was, indeed, the perfect wine.
We rounded out our dinner with a simple mixed berry cheesecake and watched the hotel staff prowl the hotel grounds in search of the jaguars that are known to lurk there. Maybe there was a jaguar. I don’t know. I was too busy with that cheesecake.
If there’s one thing that I love more than anything about living in a camper it’s getting out of the camper. Our evening at the Belmond Hotel das Cataratas was exactly what I want when we pretend to be fancy, when we order food we could never prepare for ourselves, and when we have a moment to feel like we haven’t just spent almost two years on the road.
But when the bus deposited us back outside the hotel gate and our taxi was waiting to take us back to the campground I was happy to go.
I wanted to sleep off that wine and boar belly in my own comfy bed.
I am not a physician nor do I have scientific training in tropical medicine. Please don’t take this as medical advice.
I’ll never forget the day I collapsed onto the street in Siem Reap, Cambodia, two weeks into a seven week trip through that country and Thailand. I had been sick for a few days but we decided to take the bus to Phnom Penh anyway, even though I was burning up with fever that morning. When I hit the ground I dreamily thought the heat of the pavement felt cool on my skin.
Suffice it to say I never got on that bus. Instead I found myself in a Siem Reap hospital, pumped full of fluids and painkillers, and diagnosed with dengue fever. I was released from the hospital after a day or so but it was still a week before I could travel and three more weeks before I started to feel better, really better.
That was almost 14 years ago. Since that time I’ve been the one who is always covered in repellent. I’m the one that hides behind screens at the merest hint of that maddening, whiny buzz in my ear. I’m the one that checks my body for the tell-tale rash if I feel ill after those bitches have pierced my skin with their virus laden proboscises. I’ve been lucky since that time in Cambodia but my luck ran out a month ago in Asuncion, Paraguay.
Mosquitos have been the scourge of the earth and a bane to humankind for millennia. In his book “Slave Trade” author and Georgetown professor John McNeill states that, until the mid-twentieth century, more battle troops were killed by mosquito borne diseases than were killed in actual combat. Malaria was the disease du jour at that time and troops who had not been exposed to the disease promptly got sick and died.
Mosquitos and malaria were also part of the reason why European colonists were unable to penetrate the interior of Africa until the early 1800’s. Quinine, a product of the Cinchona tree native to South America, was brought back to Europe by the conquistadors but it wasn’t until later that British colonists in India discovered that it aided in one’s recover from malaria. The bitter drink was made more palatable by adding sugar and water. Of course, the British took that one tasty step further and added gin to the mixture. What better way to feel like you’re conquering a deadly disease than to do so by knocking back a few G & T’s?
While Africa’s dark interior remained off limits the coastal regions were fair game and in the 15th century when the slave trade began Africa’s mosquitos were stowaways in large numbers. When this same trade expanded to the Caribbean and North America a new breeding ground was formed and those previously unheard of diseases flourished. Mosquitos are opportunists; give them some stagnant water and stable temperatures and they’re almost unstoppable.
Malaria was simply the start. As science progressed more mosquito borne diseases were identified and the numbers are staggering. There’s West Nile virus, equine encephalitis (yes, humans can get it from infected horses), dengue fever, Japanese B encephalitis, yellow fever, malaria, chikungunya, Saint Louis encephalitis, and zika. These are just a few of the mosquito borne diseases that humans contract but they’re the ones most world health organizations pay attention to.
So if you’re traveling to the tropics where these diseases flourish you might think about heading over to the clinic and getting a vaccination, right? Wrong. Currently, the only reliable vaccines available are for yellow fever and Japanese B encephalitis. A vaccine for dengue is available in limited supply in countries hardest hit by outbreaks but it’s not entirely effective. And if you’re in the market for a yellow fever shot you might be out of luck. A current outbreak of the disease in Brazil has effectively depleted the world’s supply of the vaccine. There is no vaccine for malaria but prophylactic medications like doxycycline can reduce your chances of contracting the virus.
As a traveler to mosquito heaven I am keenly aware of the dangers. I was vaccinated for yellow fever in 2011 prior to our trip to the Peruvian Amazon. As a previous dengue victim the vaccine for the virus was recommended to me (priority is given to the elderly, those with compromised immune systems, and people who have had the virus before) but it’s a three shot series over the course of 18 months and weighs in at a hefty 450 USD.
So, back to Asuncion, Paraguay. We had taken a break from camper life and were ensconced in a lovely little apartment. I woke up one morning feeling off and within a few hours I had a massive headache, a fever, and joint pain. I spent that day in bed gulping water and Tylenol and hoping it was just a flu. By the next day I knew I had to see a doctor. I hurled myself into a cab and headed to the nearest hospital. The moment I mentioned dengue to the reception staff I was hustled straight to an exam room. The doctor asked me about my symptoms and promptly sent me to the lab for bloodwork.
As I stated earlier I am no medical professional. However, while I waited for my blood to be scrutinized I did turn to Doctor Google. What they were looking for in my blood was the actual presence of the virus and a check of my platelet and white blood cell count. However, the test for the viral presence is a crapshoot; if the patient has the test too early after symptom onset it’s inconclusive. Antibody tests can also be inconclusive. The test can indicate an active infection or simply indicate that the patient has had the virus at some time in the past. My results were inconclusive for the virus itself, antibody presence was not tested, and my platelet and white counts were low.
That doctor’s diagnosis? Dengue fever. I was sent home with the standard treatment: fluids, rest, and Tylenol.
However, my symptoms never really progressed to the horror I experienced in Cambodia. After a few days I felt better and the fatigue dissipated within a week or so. When I followed up with a different doctor he surmised that I probably had Zika given the relatively mild symptoms. Perhaps I’ll never know what really happened.
But what I do know is this. If you're traveling in the tropics get your shots. Many countries in the world ask for proof of yellow fever vaccination and have the right to refuse entry to those without that proof. And for those who ask questions like, "Do I need a yellow fever card to get into X country" I simply reply to their question with a question.
Do you want yellow fever?
Because mosquitoes don't care about you. They only care about world domination.
At that point the sun was just a short time from setting directly behind us and I knew if the clouds stayed away the light would be exquisite. And I was right. Dark came quickly and we retreated to bed, ibuprofen and water flowing like wine. But you shouldn't drink wine at altitudes like this as I learned from our failed attempt to see Cotopaxi, Ecuador's second highest peak. And because we were at the base of the tallest point on Earth we felt it only fitting to watch "Meru" again. It was a good choice. When you're not acclimated to altitude like this sleeping is hard. I woke up at 4am and couldn't go back to sleep. The sky was dark with clouds and I wondered if I'd be able to see anything with the arrival of daybreak. However, I was wrong. I got one last shot before the clouds swirled in. We left shortly after and I was exhilarated to breathe properly again and for my headache to go away. However, as I often do on this trip, I was more grateful for the experience.
Aguardiente is a Spanish word that translates roughly to 'liquor'. A more literal translation would be along the lines of 'fire water' and could also mean 'rotgut' in certain contexts. Every time drinking would come up in conversation with Colombians, they would refer to aguardiente as the tequila of Colombia, though admittedly that may be because of the way that I steered the conversation.
Clearly aguardiente is not tequila. I'm a bit curious why many Colombians insisted that this was their version of tequila. What does that say about tequila? Is it viewed as fire water or rotgut or rather, is this their liquor of national pride?
In the case of one of the most well known and ubiquitous brands of aguardiente in Colombia, Aguardiente Antioqueño, it is made from sugar cane and flavored with anise. It contains 29% alcohol by volume and comes in a traditional variety as well as a 'sin azucar' or without sugar version (that's not how alcohol works though is it?). It is not unpleasant or harsh and I was quite fond of its ouzo like taste but aguardiente seems to me to be more like an digestive or aperitif than a proper shot that I would drink a lot of and I never really warmed up to the drink in a way that would prompt me to buy a bottle or several. Agave distillates remain the go-to even at a higher cost.
With all of that said, I was extremely surprised to find a country that is absolutely full of agave and nobody (that I was able to find) distilling agave. Claiming that aguardiente is the Colombia's version of tequila and yet not distilling any agave is a mystery to me, but that's another story.
Dates hold little significance for me these days. Unless I have to catch a plane, I have a deadline, or something is already booked and paid for on my credit card I pay little attention to dates anymore. I have no need to; I mark the passing of time in very different ways now.
However, days for me are a little different than dates. I have a routine that takes place in more or less the same order every morning. I wake up, hopefully have a relatively accessible and clean place to pee, I put on water to boil, grind coffee, and open my computer.
I brace myself for potential bad news, first from family and then from the rest of the world. I’m far away and I worry too much. But my family is well and the rest of the world? Well, my cursory glances at the news continue to reassure me that the Republic hasn’t burned. At least not completely.
Then along came October 2, 2017. The opening of the computer part of my morning ritual showed me that the flames are rising. More than fifty people dead and five hundred injured at an outdoor concert in Las Vegas. How the hell does that happen? Why am I even asking that question anymore?
This isn’t about gun control. Hell, it is not even up for debate with me. Those who know me know my stance on the issue. But what some of you might not know is that I grew up in the country and guns were a regular and normal part of my life. I learned at a very young age how to clean a gun, how to properly load and shoot a variety of handguns, rifles and shotguns, and I’m still a very good shot, or at least I was the last time I went to a gun range.
So while I spent yesterday like most people did, watching the Facebook arguments and reading the “What We Know Now” articles I had no way of knowing that October 2, 2017 was about to get a whole lot worse for me.
CBS was among the first site to report that Tom Petty was hospitalized, brain dead after suffering a heart attack the previous evening, probably about the same time the gunshots were first fired in Vegas. Soon other reputable news sites reported that he had been removed from life support and was dead. Facebook exploded. Videos of everyone’s favorite Tom Petty songs flooded my feed. I scoured the links being shared, still not quite sure what was going on. But what I did know was that I couldn’t do this. I couldn’t accept that one of MY guys had died. It’s not time yet.
This is in no way meant to diminish the deaths that occurred on the Las Vegas Strip. Senseless death in any form is just that, senseless. Cruel, harrowing, and beyond comprehension. But, despite the fact that it took the news outlets hours to actually confirm his death the simple fact that it was imminent brought up some powerful memories for me.
Memories of Tom Petty and guns.
The 1980’s were a confusing time musically. The staid rock and roll of the 70’s was contending with punk rock on one side, glam rock on the other, and had new wave right on its heels. MTV was in its infancy and 8 track players were not uncommon in the Ford pickups that rolled into my driveway, the boys behind the wheel feigning casual disinterest, a cheek stuffed with Copenhagen, and something cool blasting from the tinny speakers.
In the little corner of my 16 year old world music was everything. It defined your style, it designated who you would hang out with, and ultimately it would be a representation of you. New trends had trouble taking a foothold in the country during the 1980’s — little has changed in that regard — so we listened to what it seemed like we had always been listening to.
Rock and roll.
Rush, Yes, REO Speedwagon, Foreigner, Black Sabbath, and more would roll out of those speakers when we went out. Free from parents and always hoping to be one step ahead of the cops we’d drive out to the lake carrying our music along with us. In many ways it was all we had.
But there were also the guns.
Those Ford pickups I mentioned almost always had gun racks mounted in the back window of the cab and those racks were rarely empty. But in those days of carefree recklessness and guns galore I rarely paid any attention. What else are you going to do with empty beer cans but line them up for target practice?
However, one memory of that time lives in my head, as tangible and real as anything I have ever known and the soundtrack of that memory is Tom Petty and gunfire.
It was another summer day at the lake, hot and still, cicadas screeching at the cloudless sky. I was clad in cutoffs and an artfully ripped up T shirt from a .38 Special concert. My legs were long, lean, and brown and my dusty bare feet were swinging as I perched on a tailgate and swigged from an icy cold something. Coors or Budweiser would probably have fit the bill. A song came on and I began to sing. I knew all the words by heart.
It was American Girl by Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers.
And as gunshots and laughter rang out behind me I sang, tipsy and beautiful and so impossibly young.
“After all it was a great big world, with lots of places to run to.”
It was than one line, in one song, written by one man who had no idea how much that song and that line in particular would change me. One girl. One girl who wanted more than life in the country. More than getting pregnant, marrying one of the boys shooting at beer cans behind her and staying there in that small town.
That song has been my touchstone since that hot summer day, so long ago. Every word rings true for me and those words speak to my wanderer’s soul. They also take me back to a time in my life that was so deceptively simple; I needed nothing more than music and my friends. But I always knew that somewhere in that quiet and still place in my heart I had more in store for me. And I was right.
So as I reflect on October 2, 2017 I mourn in so many ways. So many people who should have had a great time at a concert were terrorized and died instead. And one other man, hundreds of miles away in Malibu, suffered a heart attack that would end his life as well. A life that intertwined with mine in so many ways and I’ll continue that dance as long as Tom Petty is on my playlist.
I am that American girl.
We’ve been in Ecuador since this past Friday morning, August 4th. We crossed the border on the one year anniversary of the launch of this trip. Border crossing days are hard and I kind of go on autopilot; the drill has generally been the same throughout this whole trip. We turn in Moby’s paperwork and get ourselves stamped out of one country then get ourselves stamped into the next country and repeat the process of securing legality for Moby.
If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to drive across borders in Central and South America it goes something like this. First, you wait. Either there’s a slew of commercial truck drivers also waiting for clearance or it’s breakfast time or coffee break time or some other very good reason why there’s no one at the desk. When someone does appear there are copies to be handed over of everything: title, registration, drivers’ licenses, and passports. Then all the information is entered into a computer and hopefully we receive an official document with all the correct numbers, correctly spelled names, and accurate dates. This can be tedious.
However, the process of entering Ecuador was surprisingly easy. Instead of copies the agent simply took photos of all of our documents and Moby’s license plate. Within a few minutes the photos were merged with our entry file and our TIP (temporary import permit) spit out of the printer, all t’s crossed and i’s dotted. It was a miracle. Fortunately enough, border towns are rarely anything special and it’s not as if the simple fact of moving a few hundred feet changes anything.
As we rolled away I had no “So this is Ecuador!” epiphany. I just noticed that we’re still in the Andes, everything still looks like my beloved Colombia, and I have a lot to say about that. So here are some more of my notes from our time spent in this fascinating, frustrating, and oh so intriguing country.
We use Google Maps to navigate our way through this journey. For the most part Tammy (our name for the tiny lady who lives in Will’s phone) does her job well but there have been times when she’s put us on dead end dirt roads, had no idea that streets were closed for a festival, and other things that has us cursing poor Tammy. But sometimes she makes us laugh. One day we were going to McDonald’s for lunch outside of Bogota. Tammy got us there but as we were preparing to turn into the parking lot she said, “Turn right on Em Cee Donald’s.” That’s right, the m and the c were enunciated followed by donald’s. We got a good laugh at that one.
Oh, and when we use maps.me (another navigation app) the tiny lady who spews out directions is Kiera because she has an Australian accent and on the odd occasion that the Spanish lady talks to us she is called Lorena. Sometimes you have to make your own fun; the simple act of travel doesn’t always just hand it to you.
When we were driving to Valle de Leyva we found a wide spot in the road to pull over and get out for a minute. It was a long drive that day and we had already made uneventful stops. However this one was different. There was a small building near the place where we pulled over but no real sign of people. So we’re standing on the passenger side talking and I spied a young Colombian guy coming down the hill toward us, machete in hand. We were both prepared to bolt back into the truck but when he reached the ramshackle barbed wire fence he put his machete down before climbing through the wire. He approached, hesitant greetings were exchanged, then he asked if we wanted hierba, or weed. We kind of laughed and politely declined and he went back through the fence, picked up his machete, and disappeared up the hill. Will looked at me and said, “That was courteous of him to put down his machete.” Yes, yes it was.
Our stops aren’t always at friendly campgrounds populated by fellow travelers and renditions of “Kumbaya” by a roaring bonfire, although that does happen occasionally. More often, especially when we’re driving with a far off destination in our sights, we stop wherever is convenient and looks safe, although that’s relative. And we’ve found that, in Colombia, these places are generally restaurants. They typically have large, flat parking lots, clean bathrooms, and wifi. If we order food or beers we can usually stay as long as we want for no charge.
But the free factor isn’t why these restaurants make excellent stopping points. It’s the owners and staff members that make these restaurants some of my favorite places we’ve ever stayed in Colombia. One night in San Gil we had actually planned to stay at a hotel but their kitchen was closed. We headed down the road to another restaurant and when we chatted with the owners over our meal they invited us to stay, so we did. When I drank all their wine el patrón hopped on his motor bike and went to get more. Another time we had to leave a campground because they had no water, not even for the toilets. We drove to a restaurant and set up shop. The owner was a lovely lady and we chatted a lot. I mentioned that Colombian style lentejas (lentils) are my favorite dish. They didn’t have any but, again, someone races off on a motorbike and returns with what I wanted. Since lentils take a long time to prepare they weren’t ready until the next day but the lunch I had before we left was divine, including the lentils.
Things We Do
I’ve always been a voracious reader but, as you can imagine, I read a lot on this trip. Much of my reading material consists of previously read and loved novels by Stephen King and YA books about horses. Will, on the other hand, reads a great deal of nonfiction and will occasionally recommend a title to me, knowing I probably won’t read it. However, after he talked up a book called The Outliers I decided to give it a go. Wow. It’s really, really good. The basic premise is about the many different factors at play when we look at what success is and is not. My favorite part was about how a flight crew’s culture can cause planes to crash and some of the reasons Asian people tend to comprehend mathematics better than westerners (since I can count in Mandarin I already knew part of the reason why). It’s a really great read and I hope you’ll enjoy it as much as I did.
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After a year on the road we’ve finally incorporated podcasts into our lives. I honestly don’t know how we survived on music alone this whole time. Podcasts make me feel smarter and we then have stuff to talk about over dinner because, frankly, there are times when we don’t have a whole lot to say to one another. Talking about politics has gotten so dreary.
My favorites thus far are Lore and Stuff You Should Know. Lore is basically every spooky myth, legend, or true story you’ve ever heard cleverly written and narrated by the smooth talking Aaron Mahnke. Stuff You Should Know is exactly that. I never fail to learn something new each time we listen to an episode. The ones about the Galapagos and the controversial use of solitary confinement in prison are two that I found really interesting. Plus, the hosts of SYSK have a great connection and banter that make each episode more fun. The episode about porta-potties is a great example of this.
If any of you have any recommendations for other podcasts please drop a comment below and help fuel my new addiction.
Describing Colombia from a natural beauty viewpoint is damn near impossible. It reminds of the film “Contact” and the part where Jody Foster’s character finally goes through the wormhole. As she stutters and stammers into the microphone attached to her helmet she finally says, “They should have sent a poet.” That’s how I felt nearly every day in Colombia. It’s so beautiful, so majestic, so abundant, and so dumbfounding that I felt, well, DUMB! There’s no way to describe what it looks like when you’re high in the Andes. So high that you’re shivering in hastily thrown together warmies wondering how the hell there can be bananas ripening on trees and hummingbirds lazily making their choice from hundreds of flower varieties. I know a few poets and I hope they see this portion of the post. Ladies, get your asses to Colombia and do it some justice.
One of Colombia’s most visited areas is Cocora Valley, located about 100 kilometers east of Bogota. Parts of the area are as high as 9000 feet and located there in the cloud forest is a grove of some of the most unique trees on the planet. The wax palms of Cocora are Colombia’s national tree and can reach heights of 200 feet. Of course we had to see this miracle of nature. But do we go to the park like everyone else? Of course not! That’s too easy.
Will found a spot on the map out in the middle of nowhere and as we made the turn onto the dirt road to get there my stomach dropped. It dropped even further as we lurched along this rutted, washed out track that has collapsed in places, leaving our wheels precariously close to the edge.
It turned out that this road only gave us a brief glimpse of the palms before we parked in a grassy, wide spot in the road. I fussed and fretted about the possibility of being too close to someone’s coca plantation (a not unusual fear) and what sort of wild animals we’d encounter (a vicious rabbit/pika hybrid). But there’s something to be said for being that far away and that remote in a country like Colombia. It’s humbling in its vast wildness.
You all know that Colombia lured me in with a siren song so sweet I don’t think I can ever unhear it, although I didn’t hear it at first. The robbery in Barranquilla left me so shaken I didn’t think I’d ever feel anything but disgust and fear in this wild and unpredictable land. But that’s a big part of the charm. From the street art of Bogota to the untamed Andes and, best of all, the intelligence, tenacity, and kindness of the people Colombia surprised me every day.
I’ll be back. I’m sure of it.